Barbara  Totaro

Barbara Jane Totaro (Sellitto )

Saturday, October 11th, 1941 - Thursday, May 30th, 2019
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Barbara Jane Totaro, age 77, passed away on Thursday, May 30, 2019 at Community Medical Center in Toms River. Born in East Orange, Barbara was raised in Bloomfield and had resided in Union for many years before moving to Toms River four years ago.

Mrs. Totaro worked as Office Manager for State Farm Insurance in Maplewood for many years.

Barbara’s greatest joy was spending time with her husband, children and grandchildren.

She is predeceased by her sister, Maryann Sellitto.

Surviving are her beloved husband of 53 years, Michael Totaro; her children, Dina Totaro, Michelle Mayfield and her husband, Joseph and Daniel Totaro; and her two grandchildren, Gianna and Michael Mayfield.

Viewing will be held on Monday, June 3, 2019 from 4-8 p.m. at O’Brien Funeral Home, 505 Burnt Tavern Rd., Brick. A Funeral Mass will be offered on Tuesday, June 4th at 11:00 a.m. at St. Peter’s RC Church, Point Pleasant. Cremation is private.
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  • Visitation

    Monday, June 3rd, 2019 | 4:00pm - 8:00pm
    Monday, June 3rd, 2019 4:00pm - 8:00pm
    O'Brien Funeral Home - Brick
    505 Burnt Tavern Road Extension
    BRICK, NJ 08724
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  • Service

    Tuesday, June 4th, 2019 | 11:00am
    Tuesday, June 4th, 2019 11:00am
    St. Peter's RC Church
  • Interment

    Private Cremation
    4201 Rt. 33
    Tinton Falls, NJ
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April and Robert

Posted at 09:00am
Our beloved cousin, always with us
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Patty and Mike

Posted at 07:25am
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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April and Tony

Posted at 11:53am
Always in our hearts
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Susan Valles

Posted at 09:36am
My condolences to the entire family. Since speaking with Michelle yesterday and learning of the sudden passing of Barb, I have been so saddened since. I remember working with her and we had some good times together. I will miss our conversations about family and just life as we know it. She was one fine and wonderful woman and friend and will be missed by all that knew her.

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